How do you do that?
Actually, you’re doing it all the time. You don’t even have to ask the Universe for it. It already knows.
Many unknowing Law of Attraction teachers teach that you have to ask and ask and ask again for what it is that you want.
But the truth is that the Universe isn’t dumb!
It doesn’t need reminding.
And besides, one of the problems with asking and asking the Universe for what you want is that you can block it.
How do you block your manifestation?
When we ask for what we want over and over again, we’re sort of like a nagging child.
*Do nagging children usually get what they want? *
Because parents of nagging children don’t want to encourage the nagging behavior. They want to wait until the child is cool and calm before giving them what they want.
We are no different.
And the Law of Attraction listens to how we truly feel…
When we ask the Universe for what we want from a feeling of lack, we cut ourselves off.
We cut ourselves off from the stream of abundance that was coming to us.
The vibration of a question and the vibration of the answer are two different vibrations. They are too far apart. So when you are in the vibration of asking the Universe for what you want, you won’t get it.
Your vibration is too low.
It’s not going to be the high flying, easy-going vibration that the answer is in.
This is why teachers say to “ask, and then let it go…” That’s true. When you let go, you release resistant, negative thoughts.
This is why when you want something TOO much, it won’t come…
But when you don’t want something very much, it will come! This is why we think it is easier to manifest small things. They don’t matter too much. There aren’t resistant thoughts to them…
It’s a bit frustrating, right?
But that’s how it works.
This is why most people do not manifest what they want. They aren’t a vibrational match to it.
You don’t even have to outright ask the Universe for what you want.
Because you already ask through the process of life.
With every contrasting experience in life, you ask for something better…
What is contrast?
Contrast is all of the things that you experience in life that you do not want. When you experience contrast, you become much more clear. You become more clear about what it is that you want.
That’s a very important part of life! Without contrast, the universe would not expand. It’s an integral part of creation.
Most of us don’t like the contrast. Anything “bad” in our lives is bad, right?
But contrast is the necessary ingredient to creating your reality.
When you experience the “bad stuff” in life, you shoot off rockets of desire for the opposite.
You shoot off rockets of desire out into the universe for what you do want.
- The more powerful the contrast, the more powerful the desire.
- The more powerful the desire, the better the outcome will be.
- And the more powerful the desire, the quicker it will be to “manifest.”
This is why people who experience great contrast in life have an advantage over others. This may seem like a strange concept. Whenever you experience great contrast, you set yourself up for greater manifestation.
Take the example of Dr. Joe Vitale from the movie The Secret. Also, look at Donald Walsh who wrote the book Conversations with God.
**At one point in their lives, both of them were homeless. **
And when they were homeless, they shot off powerful rockets of desire to have a home – to be abundant.
Later in life, both of them became millionaires in their own right.
“But,” you may be thinking, “first, you said that it’s good to have a powerful desire. Then you said that it’s not good to want it too much.
Which is it?”
The truth is that a powerful desire can overcome resistance. It’s all about the balance of desire, versus resistance.
But when you desire something too much, you are focused on the lack – usually, you don’t believe it. You don’t believe that you can have what you want.
The ideal situation is to have a powerful desire and no resistance – to believe that it’s coming. When you have a powerful desire with no resistance, then what you want will manifest quickly.
This first step to “ask” happens for everyone. You can do it through thought, or by default through the process of life.
Once you have asked, it is given. Let’s cover that next…